guys, be a good listener

hey, guys out there.....

when a girl, or maybe your girl starts to telling you their problems, to you, it might be, what the heck she keep complain complain complain non stop to me, why don't she just stop complaining and trying to figure out solution to solve the problems... complain do not make sense and problem can't be solve by keep complaining....

but

to girls, they are just finding someone they trust to telling their problems, because when they meet problems, they might panic, so they just need someone to listen to them....yea, is just like that.....

you should be glad that if you are the one she willing to tell, because she trusts you....

nothing you have to do, just listen to her until she finish, if you wanna trying to tell her, 'whatever complain doesn't make sense’, wait after she finish, because she probably still in high mood, if you interrupt, may make thing worst, be patient and listen to her, she will be calm after telling you because you are the one willing to spend time listen to her,  then you can tell her what she can do, how she may solve.....

girl, is just that simple, they just need somebody to listen to them=)

so guys, be patient, the girl will feel pretty warm if you patiently listen to their problems.........

and that's the way to communicate....

be a good listener=)

here some hints: 

Girls love to talk their heart out but rarely do they talk with the purpose of getting solutions. To them talking is an end to itself. Guys usually talk with a purpose, if they have problem or story to share. For guys talking is a means to and end which would be to get a solution or convey an opinions.

When you girlfriend talks to you about anything all you need to do is listen to her. So feeling compelled to put in your opinion or suggestion. She is usually not looking for a solution to her problems and is just thinking aloud. If she wants a solution would ask you directly. Be there for her when she wants to talk things out.