i happy when i see my friend happy =)

"I trust you" is much better than "I love you", because you may not always trust the person you love...

But you can always love the person you trust.

guys, be a good listener

hey, guys out there.....

when a girl, or maybe your girl starts to telling you their problems, to you, it might be, what the heck she keep complain complain complain non stop to me, why don't she just stop complaining and trying to figure out solution to solve the problems... complain do not make sense and problem can't be solve by keep complaining....

but

to girls, they are just finding someone they trust to telling their problems, because when they meet problems, they might panic, so they just need someone to listen to them....yea, is just like that.....

you should be glad that if you are the one she willing to tell, because she trusts you....

nothing you have to do, just listen to her until she finish, if you wanna trying to tell her, 'whatever complain doesn't make sense’, wait after she finish, because she probably still in high mood, if you interrupt, may make thing worst, be patient and listen to her, she will be calm after telling you because you are the one willing to spend time listen to her,  then you can tell her what she can do, how she may solve.....

girl, is just that simple, they just need somebody to listen to them=)

so guys, be patient, the girl will feel pretty warm if you patiently listen to their problems.........

and that's the way to communicate....

be a good listener=)

here some hints: 

Girls love to talk their heart out but rarely do they talk with the purpose of getting solutions. To them talking is an end to itself. Guys usually talk with a purpose, if they have problem or story to share. For guys talking is a means to and end which would be to get a solution or convey an opinions.

When you girlfriend talks to you about anything all you need to do is listen to her. So feeling compelled to put in your opinion or suggestion. She is usually not looking for a solution to her problems and is just thinking aloud. If she wants a solution would ask you directly. Be there for her when she wants to talk things out.

suddenly something on my mind, i'm talking to my friends bout flower...
then what's come to my mind is i want the real flower, don't wanna fake one...
then i was thinking what if handmade flower, anyone will prepare a handmade flower for the loved one, or friends.......
how do you feel if a girl prepare that for you??? will you melt??? ( actually discussing bout the graduation ceremony)
another way round, what if a guy prepare for a girl???
owh, is kinda impossible for this to happen, but who knows!!!
maybe there some guys out there willing to do so for their loved one, i think the girl will feel the way more warm and love=)


~~random thought~~

we just fall

这次是我自己而不是谁

 这一次我执着面对 任性地沉醉
 我并不在乎 这是错还是对
 就算是深陷 我不顾一切
就算是执迷 我也执迷不悔

别说我应该放弃 应该睁开眼
我用我的心 去看去感觉
你并不是我 又怎能了解
就算是执迷 就让我执迷不悔

我不是你们想的如此完美
我承认有时也会辨不清真伪
并非我不愿意走出迷堆
只是这一次 这是自己而不是谁


 要我用谁的心去体会
 真真切切地感受周围
 就算是痛苦 就算是泪
 也是属于我的伤悲

 我还能用谁的心去体会
 真真切切的感受周围
 就算疲倦 就算是累
也只能执迷而不悔


ps: always rmb, don't ever bluff people, even u said the truth..doesnt mean u are wrong also......
      no regret, that mistake make me realized  my mistake :) so be positive!!!!a lesson that i always    
      remembered........

reminiscent =)

wow, when i read it back, feel so hmm, crazy!!!
but it was a great experience and yeah, i really learn from this so called great project!!!HAHAHA
hmm, from this, i learn to be patient, i learn to deal with failure, i learn nothing impossible if you do it or work it out with your heart....
and is so true to named as great sense of achievability
from this article: http://jun-inspired.blogspot.com/2010/08/great-sense-of-achievability.html
hmm,wonder what's that is it.......





( please ignore my super chubby face :[ )






haha, i knitted a super longy scarf
not sure i'm done a great job but at least complete it though not really a perfect one
that's not an easy job for me, but proud yeah!!!XD

alright, Evangeline told me: you hardly blog nowadays huh
hmm, because there's nothing special to blog about, there's nothing much happening

damn, but now i got something to say about !!!
my weight!!!
let's back to one month ago, owh, he told me that : y your face so round@@
but i still feel i damn slim
3 weeks ago, i think i slim, eat sikit sikit nevermind, i had chicken chop as supper with hoegarden!!!
2 weeks ago, i think i got fried chicken as supper
1 week ago, i ate fried chicken as supper, mcD burger as supper, Seoul Garden bbq!!!!
and now, that's the result><
and now, that's the consequences

feel my pants so tight
feel my tummy so round
feel my face like roti canai
not feel!!! in fact, that's become FACT already

what to do, because i thought i'm slim enough to keep eat like i won't grow fatsT_T
people around me keep telling me this ugly truth, make me damn EMO
i know right, eng gai one, eat like that, mm fat zao gah lor!!!!!
DAI SEI!!!!!

what to do what to do what to do!!! complaining won't makes me thin!!! but i so pek cek people keep telling me u fat jor u fat jor u fat jor!!!
T_T
have to plan for my diet plan and start exercise!!!!
i can do it one!!!!!

my face no more sharp
emo ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
in one week time , i can FAT until my sis told me just now : why you so fat liao weih!!! you look so fat from every angle!!!!YURRR
DAMN HURT!!!!

I DIET FROM NOW ON!!!!!!!!

whenever i think of you,i got the same face expression......=）

A day out with girls

shop, eat, drink 

and i'm trained not to easily affected by this bunch of girls that always tell me: buy la buy la, if you like, just buy.... ;) i'm on saving plan, no buy no buy....;)

oh yea, morning class been cancelled again, not to mention, is over 17 hours being cancelled, speechless 

and right now midterm break for a week=D

this semester like so free because lotsa cancel class=S

hmmmmm, meatballs nais, and went Seoul Garden for dinner and The Library for a drink~~
owh, i do really enjoy spending time with girls
awesome one, that's all....xxx

believe

you just gotta believe

believe

believe

believe

love never fails 

♥♥♥♥♥

nomu bogoshipda

♥♥♥♥♥

Today I don't feel like doing anything, I just wanna lay in my bed!!!!!!!
Today I feel so so so happy and I don't know why am i so happy







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bogoshipo!!!

you came talk to me when i down down down
but now i feel better better better
teeeeheeeeee
yeepeee,i feel fine now and head to bed
good sleep=)
nitezz~

I like the time I'm alone in the room when I couldn't sleep....
I can sing I can scream I can do whatever like nobody business!!!!
Argh
Yet
I wish to sleep la@@
Shoooo insomnia.....



Btw, see pic below, the cat trying to catch the mouse la, keep blocking it's way！(◎_◎;)
Owh, poor little mouse




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王力宏 - 盖世英雄演唱会 -第一个清晨+不要害怕+大城小爱(HD)

力宏 力宏 力宏 always my favorite one

简单的歌词 简单的旋律 简单的情歌

简单的表达情感 简单的唱出来

This kind of struggling sucks!!!!
neither neither neither
i would like to stay outside now
NEITHER

跨国恋情 满满的祝福

LARRY WONG!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU FIRST
WISH YOU HAVE A SAFE FLIGHT TO TAIWAN 
HOPE YOU HAVE A MEMORABLE AND SWEET 21ST CELEBRATION IN TAIWAN WITH YOUR HONEY
I KNOW YOU CAN'T WAIT TO MEET HER AND SUPER EXCITED
WEEEEE~~~

嘻嘻，这篇是给我好朋友的生日祝福，还有他即将到台湾与女朋友共度他的二十一岁生日，超甜蜜的吧～～
经过几次暗恋失败，oooopsssi, 但是他找到他的幸福啦，还是台湾的正妹！！！
这对跨国情侣在一起已经有几乎两年多了吧，刚知道这消息是还蛮震惊，跨国恋情不容易吧，马来西亚人与台湾人，行不行？
（他们是在美国work and travel 认识的）
刚开始想必他们也纠结了吧，因为毕竟距离是个问题
可是两位继续坚持，相爱，直到现在啦！！！=D
他们俩超贴心的，到时间都网联，过节时都会准备贴心礼物接换
男的甚至寄了一颗DIY小圣诞树过去台湾@@
还有他们都互相织围巾给彼此，不是约好的，而是真的那么巧，交换了一样的礼物，心灵相通了吧，好甜蜜
男的过去台湾好几次了，记不清楚，而女生到过马来西亚一次了，可是这次她也会跟我朋友回来哦，好期待 好期待 可以见到她
远距离恋爱不容易 而且还是两位来自不同地方的
两年里 难免有吵架 纠结 烦恼 争执
可是 他们都很坚持 都克服了种种问题 毕竟没有解决不了的问题 
这份爱情来的不容易 应该是缘分吧 把他们绑在一起了
维持这份爱情更不容易啦 时间 距离 考验 一年才见一两次 沟通也只用电话或上网 真的不简单
看一看他们的照片 
超甜蜜 
LARRY WONG,满满的祝福给你啦，希望你好好珍惜这一份爱情，我相信你是可以的，肯定可以！！！因为那女生都说了： 非他不嫁！！！
你爽到了吧你！！！嘻嘻～～～
要幸福！！！


我很爱他们的照片，po 太多了吧，可是真的看了很窝心，很羡慕啊！！！帅哥正妹，绝配了你们～～
还有，相遇，相恋，相爱，感情得来不易，好好珍惜你们身边的爱人吧，这对跨国情侣，他们就是很好的模范！！！
祝大家都能幸福=)

Being ordinary

 being an ordinary girl

 ordinary lifestyle

 ordinary student 

 n SICK again 

 d medicine make me sho sho sho sleepy

 n i nearly fall asleep while preparing to go for class

 but

 i guess 80% recover

 just got to finish up the antibiotic 

 YEEPEE

 grab a nap now:)  and gotta work later~~