Sunday, November 13, 2011

wee, i'm definitely gonna note down what happened today!!!!
sometimes argument may not be 100% bad....at least it somehow let me realized my weakness and learn something....
i found the best thing in a relationship is that you can learn from your partner and he make you realized what is your weakness and you can improve on that....
argument may cause your relationship worst, but it may also let both of you know each other deeply and learn from each others.....
though is so tiring, is so sienz, is so helpless when a distance relationship argue on something that not really necessary, but i feel i'm glad that i can learn something i never thought before....yet, of course i don't hope this happen anymore cause really bad.........T_T
i should always remember 
don't talk about any guy friends in front of boyfriend+ don't ever protect any guys unless your date
Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think but i'm really so glad you are always calm to me
Try to be as straightforward as possible
If boyfriend starts to talk seriously, must listen to him because must be something up>.<
Don't ever ever ever drag the history out ... this is definitely something bad
Don't always joke and joke and joke without realized i'm actually over
Don't say something hurtful or throw tantrums no matter how worst is the situation

Love can somehow make someone become childish, dumb and sometimes lost control (mentally), sometimes after few hours only i realized what i talked what i did were really (DAMN EMOTIONAL W/O BRAIN) wanna bang wall!!!!!!!!! i mean i just simply say something hurtful but actually i not mean it , just emotion drag me so!!! omg, i'm just gonna have to improve on this!!!GOSH

back to the first topic which i'm trying to mention
although argument really bad, and i don't hope this happen again but i still can learn something from it
sometimes, u point out my weakness, yes yes yes, i knew, but i just didn't admit right infront of you but of course i will remember in my heart....
truly, sometimes  we won't get to know ourselves well until people point us out and only we realized
i think this is also a good thing which we can learn from each other to improve ourselves and make commitment that we will improve and become better and better

hey, miss Low, your positive power weak a bit recently, you gotta find it back hunny!!!!
remind you, don't sweat over little things or someone that not really meant in your life, be mature, they didn't meant that lot than you imagine......( as he said: think bout long term , they will just mean nothing in your life, i'm kinda agree that i'm actually over reacted ) you gotta appreciate those who really care about you......don't ever repeat same thing ever again.... don't wait until storm reaching only you prepare umbrella ( sometimes is just too late )... try to be more caring, loving to people ( owh, especially your love one ) don't ever judge people by its cover, they might be really a good one if you get to know them deeply....the difference between female and male is that female is more emotional ( 感性 ) while male is more rational (理性), so somehow you guys  way of thinking are different, hope to get a balance on this......don't ever hide anything from your boyfriend, because long distance relationship needs truth and honesty and better get to tell him as soon as possible, don't ever make decision yourself without discuss with him !!! remember this always ( Let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action. John 3:18 ♥) 


see see see, so much you gotta improve lar, miss Low
last last last, please be optimistic and positive!!!
one more weakness, don't easily let people affect your mind, don't always heart soft, stand firm!!!!! or else you gonna kena bully!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
owh, and remember the way which not hurtful but a good way to respond to people to avoid people think too much........


i feel so better to release here...................
fuh
appreciate everything you have, trust without wavering, love is patient
but still i can't wait until the day i can meet you
lai 
38 days 38 days 38 days~~~~~~


aight, continue my work, work hard, after all this done, i'm officially graduate and owh i can see you, that's my motivation!!!!!!!!!!! 
JIA YOU
















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