Monday, September 26, 2011

Becoming more accepting of things not being the way you want affects so many different aspects of your life. You become more accepting of things not going the way you want in life and people not acting how they’re "supposed to" act. These are the main causes of anger in life so you become less angry in circumstances that tend to make you angry and less angry in general. As you become more accepting of things not going how you want, you start to feel more like, "Whatever happens, happens. I’ll deal with it." This helps get rid of the natural fear of the unknown which tends to keep people from having a full life because they’re afraid of the negative possibility of new experiences. In the same way, it helps get rid of people’s fear of change. As you become less fearful of the unknown, you become less fearful of the future being different from how you want. And when you aren’t afraid of the future, you can enjoy the present more fully.


In addition, you become more accepting of your moods. When people are unhappy, angry, or just don’t feel how they would like to feel in any situation, they tend to get annoyed or upset by the way the way that they are feeling. This makes the situation worse and it becomes more difficult to come out of the "bad" mood. So when you become more accepting of your moods, you tend to come out of bad moods quicker. Overall, you become more relaxed at your core because your whole attitude towards life gradually becomes more relaxed. You also become more accepting of who you are so you won't try as much to act like something you're not. T
his leads to a gradual transformation where you begin to feel like you are becoming the "real" you.


As I said before, you also become more accepting of your faults so you become more honest about yourself which makes people respect you more. Because of their ego, many people aren't willing to admit faults that they have instead blaming things on other people. Pretty much everybody does this to some degree. Accepting the fact that you do something that is wrong is the first and arguably most important step to changing that behavior.


The world is populated with people who sometimes do things that are wrong. Even the people you care about most aren't perfect. The more you accept people for who they are, the closer you feel to them. Gradually you start to feel compassion instead of anger. This makes you feel more connected to the people you care about as well as people in general.


Give me the serenity to accept the things I can’t change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.



Friday, September 23, 2011

Is never gonna be easy........
Stay tough babeh.........

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

sometimes, left it unknown better than you reveal it......

Saturday, September 17, 2011

you gotta know......i'm happy when i'm be with you :)
thanks for make my day, thanks for everything <3

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Listening to my favorite playlist and I feel like writing this.....

This while been really good, and I finally met you yesterday!!!!
We've been chatting chatting even you're thousand miles away and the time zone different... Plus you busy with your work, pretty glad that we still have the little time can talk:)
Before the night I'm actually met you, damn excited and nervous until the hour b4, I felt my heart actually Kip few beats....
You called Me and owh finally we met, a smile a hi and you hand in the pressie and my fav drinks!!! It's really surprised me, happy till max in the heart bt I'm trying to keep calm on my face...LOL
It's really a wonderful day to be with you and the way you act is just so warm:)
You gave Me the feeling when we first met, heart skipped few beats and don't know how to respond!!!

Nomu joahae:)
And I'm glad that you remembered the perfume I mentioned before... Thank you very much not just only for the pressie but your heart that actually remembered what I likey:)

















PS: quote for the day, don't take anything for granted, let surprise come to you :)
     
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Thursday, September 1, 2011

Are human greedy by it's nature, i think yeah, probably....
same to me, when you give me some, i want more and more and more....human are greedy, included me...

always give but never ask for return: serve other silently without expecting any in return
above quote, could it be and how many people can do this, when you give something, it's a nature that you will expect something could return for your pay
so am i...

it's not easy until now
million of sounds screaming inside me but i can only keep silent
is tough is tough

but so i keep faith and i believe
but this time i will set a deadline for it
it's not about your scars, it's all about your heart

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

whenever you happy you sad,  you just wanna share, share with someone, the one the one the one the one in your heart!!!!
LIFE is awesome to have someone that you can share........ :)

Friday, August 26, 2011

i really wish there someone i can really talk to now:(

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Never leave something good to find something better, because once you realize you had the best, the best has found better.
♥ This! So true!

Wednesday, August 17, 2011




那么炎热的天气,懒洋洋地躺在沙发上,都不想动呢....
想着色盲是怎样一回事,看的世界也不一样了,通常把青和红误为别的颜色....
分辨不了颜色,蓝蓝的天空,红红的西瓜,绿油油的草地都会看成奇怪的颜色@@
要好好爱护眼睛!

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